Can’t really forget your Ex – see how

I’ve talked about forgetting your past on my previous post "LETTING GO OF YOUR PAST LIFE". Your past relationship is also a part of your past you need to let go.

It’s okay to feel terrible after a breakup and I’m assuming the breakup was because it didn’t work out between you two, or there’s a good reason you needed to let go, but whichever way it goes, it’s always painful especially for the one that loves the most, love should be 50:50 for it to work out fine (my opinion).

But here’s a list of things to help you get over that feelings & move on.

1. Letting go – after a breakup, accept the fact that you won’t see each other again, let go of every thought and occupy yourself with other relevant things.

2. Lose contact – it’s actually the first thing to do, for you not to have a reminder. It’s really a bad idea to still have your ex on any of your social media platforms, block and delete (BD) from all the platforms.

3. Hangout with friends – have a refreshment of mind and ideas with your many other friends, you can ask them to help you take your mind off things.

4. Avoid loneliness – you don’t have to lock yourself up in a room crying and thinking about your ex all day, come on!! There are a lot of things to do and see, have you thought about your hobby? Career or things you need to learn and be useful to yourself as a human being. You can watch movies when less busy, play games, read books/novels, practice a lot of new things. Either way don’t give room for loneliness.

5. Forgive and Forget – accept the fact that your ex has moved on for good and you should too, try and be happy instead of hating or regretting. Let go of every thought, of course you will always remember and get those flashes of moments spent together, just try not to think and dwell on them, always wave it off saying “it’s for the best and I’m happy”.

6. Don’t lock yourself up – always give room for new friends, but avoid getting into a new relationship so fast because it might be disastrous, as you desperately seek comfort, you might end up in the wrong hands. Just think about yourself for at least some weeks get yourself refreshed enjoy your single life before ending up in a relationship again.

7. I’ve always advised my friends to at least hangout with whomever you want to date for at least a month or more to make sure you are not too quick to start up with them and regret it at the end.

Don’t forget to always pray. It works.

Letting go is hard, but with good practice you can do it.